| Home
Education Myths
Forward
When
my husband Karl and I made the decision to homeschool our children
in the fall of 1973, it was a life-changing undertaking. It proved
to be, and is still, one of greatest fulfillment and lasting satisfaction.
To
be a wife and mother has always been a most precious treasure
in my life. God has blessed our marriage of more than thirty-four
years with nine, now grown, children; six girls and three boys.
He has added yet many more blessings to our household including
twenty-seven grandchildren—and we're still counting!
As
the wife of my missionary, and pastor husband, we have been more
than satisfied with having our children with us day by day.
Homeschooling became a natural part of our daily living, one that
has all too soon been completed. We are very happy to see and be
a part, with several of our children now homeschooling their children.
There
were, from the beginning, many questions which relatives and other
concerned people would bring repeatedly to our attention, while
we were in the process of educating our children. These questions
are still being asked of homeschooling parents today. The answers
are still the same and certainly proven to be true. Home education
does work; is not a burden, and does produce the desired results.
A mature, capable young man and young woman, with a firm belief
in God, the home and family, and a strong patriotic citizen, as
well as being self-sufficient are results which homeschooling parents
should see.
When
beginning, it seems like such a long lonely road to take, but in
reality it is a truly blessed way of living. Children are the heritage
and blessing of the Lord. We have so few short years to have the
companionship and closeness of our children. That which we
impart to them during their years of nurturing and training will
be the basis for their character and beliefs when they mature.I
have often taught of Jockebed, Moses' mother;Hanna, Samuel's mother,
and others in the Bible who, in the formative years of their children's
lives, instilled in them the faith and belief in God that influenced
these men and women as they became leaders before God.
We
need not, as parents, feel that we are depriving our children by
homeschooling them. Indeed we are giving them the foundation for
their lives. God will honor and bless our determination to do things
His way.
Besides
being concerned myself, our own capability to teach our children
was challenged on occasion. I also know, though, that the source
of ability' comes from our Heavenly Father. "For it is God
which worketh in you both to will and to do of his good pleasure"
(Philippians 2:13). Our God who gives us our children requires us
to teach them His righteous statutes, judgments, laws, and His Holy
Word. God who gives us children also gives the ability' to properly
raise and teach them.
I
guess it is a very strange thing that the educational system that
taught most of today's parents would so question the results of
their own products.
The
challenge to Karl's credentials to write seems equally foolish.
Having been a minister for over twenty-five years and actively involved
in the education of our own children for over fifteen years; Karl
has gained a wealth of insight, knowledge, and understanding. Karl
has also been the director of the Christian Home School Association
in Northern Arkansas until recently. He has spent considerable time
and effort in study, working in legislative activities, and in legal
cases involving homeschool issues.
Virginia
Reed
Introduction
The
decision to teach one's own children at home rather than sending
them out to a school can be a very difficult one since it is a break
with the traditions under which the present generation of Americans
have been trained. The trauma is greatly increased by the very nature
of that training. Furthermore, public education has taken on the
nature of a religion; promising answers for all ills of life and
nation.
That
"religion" holds that men can successfully disregard God's
teaching mandate bestowed upon parents. and that by other means
and by their own understanding they can educate children so
as to save themselves, their nation and the world. That "religion."
or belief system, incorporates into its dogma a faith in "The
Secular State," which is now carved in the likeness of God.
Along
with holding to a belief in "The State" has come a total
lack of confidence in God and His foundation for true primary
education which rests upon parents, family, and faith in God.
Disregarding all of that. state-run schools have taught Americans
to put faith in "The State" where they once put faith
in God and His way. It can readily seen that the error has produced
generations of Americans who have been robbed of their faith. As
a direct result of being trained in "secular" schools,
they lack real faith in God and have little, if any, confidence
in parents or their God-given abilities.
Sad,
though true, many Christians and churches have now accepted the
error as truth. When thy think of education they think of public
schools. When they think parents they think of failure. When they
think of homeschooling they think of poor cheated children.
Blind
faith in the error has further laid the groundwork in our thinking,
allowing a myriad of myths and fears to become accepted as if they
were very real dangers to anyone considering home education.
Those myths and fears, however, are but paper tigers which can be
readily expelled by a return to faith in God, His Word, and His
way!
Although
Virginia and I did not begin with a lot of confidence, it was our
growing faith in God which sustained us throughout the years
of homeschooling our children. I speak not only of a faith in His
being near to support our efforts day by day, but more specifically
of a return to a belief in the methods He originally designed for
passing knowledge from the older generations to the up-coming generation.
It
was but few generations ago that the education of children was looked
upon as neither a problem nor a liability, but to the contrary,
a normal duty of parents. With natural support from grandparents
and community they were expected to be well able to accomplish
their duty. Parents could readily get help with whatever they might
lack. The imagined threats we face today and accept as hindrances
to proper education were not even considered those few generations
ago. They were certainly not accepted as menacing beasts. Even today,
however, these "beasts" can easily be exposed as paper
tigers. So let's take a closer look at our "paper tigers."
Myth:
Only Highly Trained Educators Can Teach Children
In
thinking back over my youth, if I were to list all of my teachers
(those who taught me something of value for life) most of them would
not be my public school teachers. The majority would be just ordinary
people who crossed my life, some ever so briefly. They would include
many who had never been to college or high school. Some of them
did not even finished grade school. My own father falls into that
last group.
Among
my list of teachers would be some very beautiful people who
had never gone to school at all. I can only wonder how much more
they could have passed on to me had they but believed they could.
How much more could I have asked of them had I only known to do
so? I have eventually come to regret that I often failed to ask.
Time has now taken many of them beyond the reach of mortal men.
It
is also noteworthy that even children can and do teach children.
A reporter for a local newspaper once told me that he and his wife,
neither of whom had more than a high school diploma, made a set
of flash cards and taught their three-year-old daughter to read
by the time she was five. Then using the same flash cards they also
taught their second daughter to read by the time she was five. Those
two sisters, one five and one seven then took that worn set of flash
cards and taught their little, three-year-old sister to read by
the time she was five.
Isn't
it interesting that a seven-year-old and a five-year-old can teach
their three-year-old sister to read without the aid of a trained
teacher, yet amazingly, the more educated each succeeding generation
becomes the more it tends to look upon itself as being incapable
of teaching its own children? The exact opposite should be the case.
The more educated parents become the more capable they should be!
The apparent lack of self-confidence is a by-product of godless
(secular) schooling; which leads to a lack of confidence in
God who created us and commanded us to teach our sons and our son's
sons. (See Deuteronomy 4:9). Is it any wonder that a people taught
to have no confidence in their Creator will have no confidence in
the creation— namely themselves?
While
considering my observations. Virginia concluded that the lack
of self-confidence can best be cured by stepping out, in faith,
to do that which we feel we can't. She believes such is the case,
not only in homeschooling, but in most everything. I might add.
she has followed homeschooling to success and has gained the confidence
to take up midwifery, becoming much in demand. It is amazing the
things which homeschooling parents will do once they break the shackles
ofl-can'l-do-it thinking.
The
original intent of teacher certification and school accreditation
was to assure parents that the school run by the government was
a good place to send their children for an education, and to
assure the taxed public that the public school was a good investment.
It was never instituted to use as a club against anyone, or to prove
that without certification one cannot teach. To use it that way
now defies intelligence. A license to teach no more proves that
one can teach than a license to fish will automatically assure us
of a fish dinner. Teacher certification means that the teacher has
been through an approved course. Accreditation means that the school
has certain specified facilities, courses, and faculty. It is commonly
assumed that such has something to do with education.
Whereas,
even children can teach children, it should be obvious that children
are going to leam with or without highly trained teachers!
The more important question is not who is going to teach them;
rather. What are they going to learn?
Myth:
More Money Equals Better Education
Quite
frankly, from observing the historic results of spending more and
more money for the elusive better education while the product degenerates
proportionally, there is only one possible conclusion. The less
money we spend, the better we educate. The not-so-obvious reason
for the failure of the massive infusion of tax dollars is:
the more money America has invested in education the further
we have drifted from the natural elements of learning, and from
the simple teaching tools which God originally set before us.
In
America, education has been four-walled and a premium has been placed
upon those walls of folly. Those four walls of the classroom now
are a barrier
against
creation and the Creator. The child once inside is surrounded with
the man-made. On the outside is the God-created. Strange as it may
seem, the books on the inside are written about the real world on
the outside, which is supposed to be a better way of learning than
simply staying out and learning in the real world.
Myth:
Good Education Requires Expensive Facilities
For
the life of me, I cannot see what the cost of a building has to
do with children's ability to leam! Perhaps. if the roof leaked
on the textbook it might make some difference. Most homes, though,
do not have a serious problem with a leaky roof. Even if they
did it would not be too difficult to move the book until the rain
stopped or the roof was repaired. Now that I think of it. repairing
the roof might give homeschoolers an excellent educational experience.
I
have enjoyed observing children learn from their simplest experiences
and in some of the simplest circumstances. There is wisdom
in God's instructions in Deuteronomy 6:7. which calls for parents
to teach their children when they sit with them in the house, while
they walk with them in the way. at bedtime, and upon rising in the
morning. Quality education can readily be accomplished in the natural
setting of the home during the daily affairs of the family, and
in the arena of the world around us where God has so clearly recorded
both knowledge and wisdom. Psalms 19:1-3 tells us;
"The
heavens declare the glory of God; and the firmament sheweth
his handiwork. Day unto day uttereth speech, and night unto night
sheweth knowledge. There is no speech nor language, where their
voice is not heard."
Our
forefathers received an education by the light of the ebbing fire,
or out in the field, or perhaps in the forest, cutting logs.
On the other hand. I see the modem student standing beside the road,
after the morning rush to swallow breakfast and locate all the lost
shoes, books and paraphernalia, waiting to catch the regulation
yellow bus with its regulation seats. It will carry him to
the regulation building with the regulation classrooms and on and
on ad infinitum regulatum. Are regulation shoes treading the regulation
halls as blessed as toes at home in the soil?
Myth:
More of Everything, Educational Tools, Books, etc. is Better
The
fact is that too much tends to confusion which contributes to burnout.
Furthermore, education does not occur through osmosis. Surrounding
children with volumes of books, educational toys, and numerous
other supposedly educational gadgets does not necessarily create
a good educational environment.
Children
leam best when they are in familiar surroundings and working
comfortably in an unpressured atmosphere. Parents also do better
teaching in an uncluttered, unpressured home. There is neither
cause nor reason to clutter or confuse the education process.
1
further believe that one of the reasons for our inability to
pay attention or concentrate for very long is because we are too
often interrupted, being surrounded by too much flash and color.
Radio and television noise often fills our ears. Cars, airplanes
and various other vehicles are endlessly racing by. Even being surrounded
by a crowd of people can be disrupting. People, noise, and clutter
often distracts from study.
Myth:
Quality Education Requires Lots of Money
According
to my own cost estimates, I have concluded that educating children
at home is less expensive than sending them to a "free"
public school. I include in my cost estimates the numerous expenses
which are laid upon parents who send their children to a public
school. There are the required school supplies, transportation costs
in driving to and from the school for various reasons—registrations,
emergencies, and this and that meeting etc.—and shame shame
on the parent who fails to take time out from their busy schedule
to attend a meeting or conference. There are the gym clothes and
shoes etc., to be taken into account. Consider, too, the cost of
lunches, whether it be a "sack lunch" or a hot one purchased
from the school. One must also take into account all the slips brought
home from school "requesting" $5.00 or $10.00 for
this or that. Regardless of whether or not it's a requirement, clothing
is a major factor which in and of itself can easily be enough to
offset the cost of a complete homeschool curriculum.
In
addition to the above, there is the peer pressure on a child to
conform to the popular styles—"Reeboks," designer
clothes etc. That also translates into pressure upon the parents.
The cost for a child entering into extra-curricular activities can
be staggering, but what public schooled child doesn't? Although
it cannot be calculated in dollars, there are certainly some long
term costs related to peer pressure which can eventually become
very costly!
It
remains that homeschooling is less expensive than the free public
school even when parents order a complete course from one of the
many suppliers now marketing homeschool curricula. Many parents,
however, Virginia and I included, prefer to develop their own curriculum
which can be done very readily by simply using the numerous resources
close at hand, such as: libraries, Sunday school supplies,
the Bible, as well as daily experiences. There are also several
homeschool suppliers who will gladly mail parents a complete catalog
of available supplies from which to select.
It
stands to reason, however, that two plus two is still four and it
doesn't make any difference whether it is two Cadillacs plus two
Cadillacs or two pebbles plus two pebbles when teaching children
to cipher. In fact, most children would enjoy throwing two pebbles
plus two pebbles at bubbles into the brook, anyway. Money is not
the source of either knowledge or wisdom. Expensive covers
don't necessarily mean it's a good book. Neither do more dollars
spent insure a better education.
Myth:
The Family Cannot Provide Opportunities Necessary for Children's
Education
Again,
there is no need to fear or panic; it is not the number of opportunities
which leads to success, but the ability to handle one that counts.
Our children's lives, like our own, are not directed by man-made
opportunities but by the hand of an all-wise God. who declares
in Proverbs 3:5-6, "Trust in the Lord with all thine heart;
and
lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge
him and he shall direct thy paths."
God
provided the home for children and he will provide for the children
therein. There is, therefore, no need to attempt to invent numerous
opportunities which can easily lead to confusion and frustration.
Providing opportunities is not the goal. Preparing children to choose
rightly is our goal. Parents need only teach their children the
precepts which will aid them in discerning between a true and a
false opportunity. Again the Scripture gives insight, "...that
he may know to refuse the evil and choose the good" (Isaiah
7:15).
Although
such is the case, every resource available to the public school
is available to the home. When the time comes for a child to pursue
a particular field of knowledge, the opportunity to take hold of
it is seldom very far away. In addition, educational opportunities
are available through the family which the public school can't possibly
offer. An immediate example is our daughters heiping their midwife-mother
deliver a baby. No public school child ever finds that to be part
of the curriculum.
Let's
put the shoe on the other foot where it belongs. Rather than providing
our children with opportunities the public school, in many ways,
denies children opportunities.
Myth:
Some Parents Just Can't Teach
That
charge is often leveled at parents by "experts" who claim
that parents either lack qualifications or ability. In view of God's
command that parents teach their children, I ask. What kind of a
charge is that? Surely, it flies in the face of God!
I
really don't know if Moses was qualified to lead Israel out
of Egypt or not. I don't know if he was qualified to teach them
the law. I do know that he was told to do it rather than being asked
to do it. Furthermore, when he argued with God about his qualifications
the Lord answered "...I will be with thy mouth, and will teach
thee what thou shall say" (Ex. 4:12). Parents are likewise
"told" to teach their children, "And thou shall teach
them diligently unto thy children..." (Deut. 6:7). God will
likewise be with them as He was with Moses.
Much
like any other task, large or small, teaching children depends more
upon willingness and upon obedience to the command of God than
upon measurable ability. God gives parents the desire and he has
also promised to give them the ability. "It is God which worketh
in you both to will and to do of his good pleasure" (Philippians
2:3). Somewhere, then, there is within the heart of parents a place
where God created an ability to teach children. It will, if
nurtured, bud and bloom into a fragrant blossom leading to a very
rewarding and fulfilling experience. As well as experiencing it
ourselves, Virginia and I have seen it happen to others.
Probably
the most forgotten ability in all the hassle over the education
of children is the ability' of the child to work out his own education.
The major factor in any child's education is the child's ability
to. ask, seek, and knock, which, by the way, is an underlying principle
in anything in life. including salvation. "Ask, and it shall
be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened
unto you" (Man. 7:7).
Children
who succeed in getting an education deserve far more credit
than any of their teachers. The thirst for knowledge and the hunger
to lay hold upon it is absolutely essential to success in education.
Without that natural thirst and hunger education cannot be accomplished
regardless of who teaches; with it, education can be accomplished,
often in spite of who teaches.
Myth:
Home Education is Not for Everybody
God
established the family with commandments, one of which is that parents
and grandparents are to teach their children and grandchildren.
"Only take heed to thyself, and keep thy soul diligently, lest
thou forget the things which thine eyes have seen. and lest they
depart from thy heart all the days of thv life: but TEACH THEM THY
SONS, AND THY SONS' SONS" (Deut. 4:9, emphasis added). That's
"sons' sons" as in grandparents.
Thus,
when God gives children he also gives, along with the child the
requirement that parents teach, as can readily be seen in the above
scripture. To say, then, that home education is not for everybody
is to shirk responsibility. It certainly goes contrary to a
direct command of God. In other words, it is a cop-out. It
is the same as saying, it is not for all parents to be faithful,
or that obedience to parents is not for all children.
I
am not saying that all education must be done by parents and grandparents
or that parents can't hire tutors because the Scripture clearly
allows for such. Parents can also send their children to schools
should the}' so choose, providing said schools measure up to certain
godly standards.
On
the other hand, I am saying that parents have the duty to teach
and the corresponding responsibility over that duty, which cannot
be cast off. Parents are accountable to God, who gave them
their children, for seeing that their children be educated in accordance
with His instructions, whether they do it all themselves or hire
tutors. The duty to teach comes with the child. Therefore,
even when children are tutored or schooled outside the home there
always remains a major portion of their education, the duty for
which first falls upon the parents and then upon the grandparents.
Neither
parent nor grandparent can stand before God at the final judgment
and say, Was I my child's (or grandchild's) keeper; wasn't The State
supposed to do that? Parents neither receive their children from
the government nor are they commanded to abandon their children
to the government.
A
sad note here is the average American grandparent who fails to discover
the pleasure of being involved in their grandchildren's education.
Tragic, the motor home driving off into the sunset with a bumper
sticker which reads, "We are spending our children's inheritance."
Not only are they in derelict of duty. they are missing one of the
greatest blessings of their lives—giving knowledge and wisdom
to their own grandchildren.
It
is important to realize that all homes do teach their children something.
In fact. there are statistics to show that most of that which children
leam is learned before they ever reach the age required to be able
to go out to a school. Children having learned to converse in our
own language is but one example. Therefore, when we are talking
about formal education we are not talking about the total sum of
the child's learning. We are only speaking about a portion
of it being done in a formal setting somewhere. All of that being
said, it is then obvious that home education, at some level, must
be for everybody!
Myth:
Home Education Requires Super-Human Effort
Once
we became able to shake off inherited misconceptions about
education, Virginia and I discovered that homeschooling our children
has required no superhuman effort. There is no need for home
education to cause hardship or to take hours upon hours. Parents
are commanded to teach their children, and we are told, "None
of the commandments of the Lord are grievous" (I Jn. 5:3).
Obviously the command to teach was never intended to be grievous.
It is only the errors of the education establishment which
has caused the education process to be difficult, and more recently
the errors creeping in through ill-advised home school laws.
Does
not reason demand that laws relating to education show a certain
similitude to intelligence? Sad to say the similitude to intelligence
for a long season has been lacking in education statutes and the
homeschool movement will follow suit if it does not change course.
Regardless
children are an asset, not a liability. They have a lot to contribute
to their own education which can go a long way in easing the work
load on the teaching parent. Older children can often do many
of the chores around the home while mom teaches the younger children.
They too can be teachers of their younger brothers and sisters.
All of which can, and should, be considered part of their own education
and part of the blessing of children.
"Lo,
children are the heritage of the Lord: and the fruit of the womb
is his reward. As arrows are in the hand of a mighty man; so are
children of the youth. Happy is the man that hath his quiver full
of them: they shall not be ashamed, but they shall speak with the
enemies in the gate" (Ps. 127:3-5).
"Thy
wife shall be as a fruitful vine by the sides of thine house: thy
children like olive plants round about thy table. Behold, that thus
shall the man be blessed that feareth the Lord" (Ps. 128:3,4).
Myth:
Home Education Creates Hardship Upon Parents
Such
will be the case should parents try to copy the public school, and
secondly, when they try to have a structured study time in an unstructured
home. A more recent development has been the passage of homeschool
laws which place unrealistic requirements upon parents teaching
their children at home. (That latter development must be seriously
addressed and corrected since it bodes considerable mischief for
the teaching home. For the most part, however, we will leave the
question of homeschool laws to our other writings.) It is important
that the home be structured after a godly pattern. Thereafter, the
home education process should fall into place quite naturally. In
other words. structure the home and you will hardly notice when
homeschooling begins.
In
spite of whatever we may have been taught, to have a spouse is an
asset and to have children is a blessing. When the home is
set in order with parents in charge and children are taught to obey,
in-home academic learning will easily fall into place. (Again,
we will put shoe on the other foot. Consider the loss to the home
when about the time children become helpful within the home they
are sent out for their education.)
Above
all else. parents must not try to copy the public school program!
Keep in mind that the objective is that children become educated,
and not that we create a program.
Creating
a program, however, seems to be at the base of some homeschool laws.
Requiring a certain number of hours or specifying certain times
of day or certain days, as well as certain courses can lead to burdens
which have nothing to do with good education. It only accomplishes
turning that which God intended to be a blessing into a burden,
plus eventual homeschool burnout.
My
son Jonathan testifies that he had only about an hour and a half
a week of formal education time during his years of secondary education.
Yet he, along with his brothers and sisters, have done exceptionally
well when tested against the norms. The hour and a half a week cannot
possibly equal a thousand hours a year, yet a thousand hours of
instruction is a requirement in at least one homeschool law.
My
sister Karen attended public school but was sick one year with rheumatic
fever and could not attend school most of that year. The public
school sent out a tutor for and hour and a half a week. Karen kept
up with her class and accordingly got her best grades that year.
Myth:
Children Need Socialization and Peers
The
original goal of the common school and later the public school was
education, not socialization. Years of compounding failure by the
public school has created a need to grasp at straws to justify its
continued existence and the massive infusion of tax dollars.
Without
the alleged need for socialization there would be little reason
to go back to the well year by year seeking more money for the public
school program. There would be no justification for attacking homeschooling
families. Therefore it becomes extremely important to the educational
establishment and to the parasitical organizations it supports that
the alleged need for socialization be shouted from every soap
box.
For
those reasons it is perhaps the most touted myth which parents who
are beginning home education will hear. I don't know who first invented
the concept, but plenty of people arc firmly caught in the deception.
I do know the ones who stand to profit most from state education,
accompany the parading of that paper tiger with their extremely
loud roaring. Regardless, fact remains that children do not in any
way develop good character from each other. Good character is developed
in a child by learning God's way and by learning to obey Him.
I
don't know if I should, but I am going to ask anyway: if children
need to be in a gang of peers their own age why didn't God have
them bom in litters?!
Now
on the other hand there is the high risk of negative socialization.
That occurs when poorly trained, or undisciplined children corrupt
other children.
Three
or four years after Virginia and I, with our brood of nine, moved
to Arkansas, a respected life-long resident of the South, then in
his seventies, told me about the losing struggle to maintain local
control of education. The occasion he spoke of took place during
the 1940's while the Second World War was yet raging and many of
the native sons were still fighting in Europe against a man maddened
with many wild claims, one of which was that the children belonged
to The State.
A
wise old farmer raised his voice to protest the consolidation
policy being pushed upon the people by the department of education.
It was during those last days of the little one room school houses,
which then dotted the Ozark Mountains of Northern Arkansas. He protested,
"It won't work. You put a sheep killer in with your pups and
they will all become sheep killers." His protest fell upon
deaf ears and the subsequent record. now posted under the lengthening
shadow of crime. drug abuse, and overflowing prisons, speaks for
itself.
Myth:
Homeschooled Children Will be Too Sheltered
Even
our laws shelter children from alcohol, cigarettes, movies, pornography,
physical abuse, etc. Children need sheltering!!
I
confess! Homeschooled children are being sheltered, and that
is exactly the thing that parents must go right on doing! God fully
intends for the home to shelter developing children and parents
need not feel guilty for obeying God in doing that very thing.
Not
only is the home a warm. clean refuge for the body, it is especially
so for the soul and spirit. The danger to children in this
world is not under-exposure but over-exposure. I have one question
to ask my skeptical friends. How do you send your child's "secular"
to school and keep his soul and spirit at home?
Myth:
Homeschooled Children Will Become Too Dependent Upon Parents
That's
one myth I have occasionally wished our skeptical friends had been
right about. However, they were wrong and in due season our children
have all grown up and have become happy to leave home and launch
out on their own.
I
do admit that our children did appear a little shy at times; especially
so when we compared them to other children. I suppose it was partially
due to the fact that we had the firm conviction that girls should
act like ladies and that boys should be gentlemen. Regardless, none
of our children suffer from shyness now that they have grown-up.
Myth:
Homeschooled Children Will be Unable to Handle the Real World
Let
all understand, the real world is not the one trimmed with flashing
lights and decked with earthly, fleshly, devilish trinkets. Neither
is the real world the one paved with concrete. The real world is
the clean, pure, and beautiful one which God created and governs
by his law and his authority. Children brought up in the real world
under the law of God will be well able to stand true and faithful
against the cheap, imitation one. Furthermore, a child brought up
to be a servant in the kingdom of God for eternity will be perfectly
fitted to live on earth a few short years.
Myth:
Homeschooled Children Won't Fit Into Tomorrow's World
That's
the easiest myth of all to handle. Who holds tomorrow's world, "The
State" or God? It's doubtful that many people really want to
know the future as bad as they think they do. If they did, would
they know how to prepare their children for it? The education of
children is best left in the hand of the one who holds the future
in His hand. It is He who has stated, "The preparations of
the heart in man, and the answer of the tongue, is from the Lord"
(Pr. 16:1). It is He who has stated, "And all thy children
shall be taught of the Lord; and great shall be the peace of thy
children" (Is. 54:13). It is He who has declared, "I
have created the smith that bloweth the coals..." (Is.
54:16). See also Ex. 36:1.
Myth:
Children Taught at Home Won't be Able to Go to College or Get a
Job Without a High School Diploma
Any
school can issue a high school diploma. That includes parents
who teach their children at home. Most home educating parents have
chosen a name for their homeschool. All they need to do is order
a blank diploma from a supplier or design one of their own, which
would include the name of their school and then have it professionally
printed. They can then issue a lovely, official looking diploma
to their child upon completion of their child's home education program.
It's
not surprising that there are enterprising individuals who
are willing to issue a high school diploma to homeschooled children.
Their fee for a diploma, however, could be saved if parents choose,
as I have suggested, to issue a diploma of their own design, which
would be no less valid than any other high school diploma.
As
far as jobs go, if the experience of our own nine homeschooled children
holds true employers will soon be scouring the market for promising
homeschooled children. The same is true of colleges. I recently
attended a homeschool convention in one of the mid-western
states. At that convention there were no less than nine colleges
represented there, all seeking to attract home-schooled young
people to their campuses.
With
few exceptions, homeschooled children have little difficulty, either
entering or keeping pace in college. One young mother told
me that when she informed her mother, who is a college professor,
that she was going to homeschool her child the response was, "Good.
at least one young person will come to this college knowing
something." Too bad all grandparents don't feel that way.
Parents
should not be too quick, however, to believe , that jobs. diplomas,
and college are necessarily the highest goals for the little jewels
God has loaned to them for upbringing, training, and educating.
It's doubtful that many of the men of God would have fit into
a college mold—Elijah and John the Baptist to name but two.
Where do you suppose they got their credentials? Where is Backside
of The Desert College, anyway? (See Exodus 3:1).
Myth:
Home Education is a Radical New Idea
Nothing
could be further from the truth. The teaching home has been with
mankind since the dawn of creation. The home was instituted of the
Creator for that very purpose. He designed the home for producing
godly children who are to be, in due course, returned to our Heavenly
Father. It was for that reason that the marriage and the family
were instituted in the opening chapters of the Bible.
In the closing chapters of the Old Testament the purpose of
God in creating the Family is made quite clear:
"...And
wherefore one? That he might seek a godly seed..." (Mal. 2:15).
In
between those chapters many references and instructions are given
relating to parent/child relationships. In short, marriage was ordained
of God to conceive, birth, nurture, and train up a child. It was
to be "line upon line, precept upon precept" until the
child is fully ingrained in accordance with the principles of Scripture.
Then the child, having been a sacred trust, is to be returned to
God who alone committed that precious child to the parents. It was
done that they might, for a little season, share with our Heavenly
Father the joy of training and nurturing that child. Although parents
might then consider a grown young man or young lady mature. God
considers them seeds, ready to be sown in the earth, to bloom into
fruitful service for the kingdom of heaven. Thus the cycle of life
continues.
Throughout
the ages home education has served well, blessing men and nations.
Home education was the most common method of education in the "New
World" serving to lay the foundations of America. It was the
teaching home which brought fourth the men who preached God's Word
from the nation's pulpits, revealing law and government, judgment
and justice. It was the teaching home which produced the men who
produced our government, anchored upon the revelation of God.
If
a list were to be made of successful home educated Americans it
would include a long list of our presidents, generals, inventors,
business leaders, and many other men and women of renown. Successful
people of every profession and walk of life would fill many volumes.
Why then should we believe it so radical? Why not return to a way
which was so successful in the early years of our country? Or has
academic freedom now become our fearsome foe?
Sad
though true, the departure from the teaching home, being a departure
from the Way of God, has brought upon this nation much sorrow and
pain, many heartbreaks and tragedies. A return of the teaching home
is the only real ray of hope for the education quagmire into which
our nation has sunk. The teaching home will again produce success,
providing it is not destroyed by ill-advised legislation, or by
ill-begotten court decisions.
In Conclusion
Although teaching children
at home instead of sending them out to be educated seems like
a new idea, obviously it is not. History clearly records that
home education was alive and well in the formative years of America,
and for centuries before anyone thought of having a school run by
the government. In fact it is education in a public school
run by the government which is relatively new. A few decades of
public schooling, however, has conditioned Americans until the idea
of home education seems like a radical departure from good judgment.
Many of us who, a number
of years ago, chose to depart from the accepted norm are now
considered pioneers in the modem homeschool movement. I prefer,
however, to think of us as adventurers because the course we took
was one of rediscovery and pleasure rather than of hardship and
toil. If anything it was a process of throwing off the crushing
bonds of the fossilized thinking of the education establishment
and launching out upon the course of academic freedom once enjoyed
by Americans in days gone by.
Perhaps the fears and
tremblings, the tears and stumblings were necessary accomplices
to our first steps of departure from the ingrained dogma of our
society. But even as our adventuring forefathers did not fall off
the edge of the world, we have not found the home to be an unsafe
place for our children. Our quest for academic freedom has been
rewarded. Our steps back into the good way have not been in vain.
Time has honored our decision.
If we have blazed a trail
it cannot be said that we were the first to travel that pathway,
because each step was taken before us. We merely followed the Master
who like ourselves was dishonored for lack of credentials,
but the dishonor of this world is not always dishonor with
our Creator. In fact, there are blessings from God. in heaven above,
upon all who obey His Word, especially so in the training of
one's own children whose souls are eternal.
In addition to eternal
rewards we were to discover many joys, here and now. In seeking
to obey God in the teaching and upbringing of our children we discovered
the joy of having our children around us everyday. That made it
possible for us to watch and help as they daily stretched a little
farther to reach yet another stepping stone.
Yes, homeschooling allows
parents to lay up treasures in heaven while enjoying the priceless
rewards that come with being with one's own children in the prime
of their tender young years. What greater stewardship can there
be of the talents our Creator has bestowed upon His servants? What
greater joy?
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